How to Be a Man According to Boris Kodjoe....

Published on Monday, August 8, 2011 in , , , ,

As I was doing my normal blogging, today I came across an article from necolebtchie.com.  The article was about a trending topic started by Boris Kodjoe as a response to a fellow actress who seems to be down on her luck when it comes to love.  Boris Kodjoe and his wife Nicole Ari Parker are one of the few famous couples that I can say I admire!  With that being said after reading Boris' tweets I just had to share them with you all because I wanted to get your feedback/and additons to the list!  I agree with everything on the list LOL! Check out the list below and let us know if you agree, disagree, or have something to add!  



❤  Embrace your imperfections
❤  Laugh at yourself. A woman likes a man who doesn’t take himself too serious.
❤  Fix or build something with your hands. It’ll show her that you are capable of taking care of a home.
❤  Know how to cook and clean. It’ll show her that you don’t need her but that you WANT her.
❤  Get your passport and travel. A man needs to see the world.
❤  Communicate without cursing. You don’t need to curse to make a point. Cursing shows lack of substance.
❤  In bed, take care of your woman first. When she’s satisfied you are DA MAN!!!
❤  Stay in shape. It’ll show her that you care about yourself and therefore are able to care about her.
❤  Take care of your responsibilities. Anything less is unacceptable. A boy is irresponsible, not a man.
❤  Open her her door and pull out her chair. It shows her that you honor traditional values. Trust me, she will do the same.
❤  Be present! Take her in with your eyes and ears. Your attention will make her feel loved and she won’t ever nag you.
❤  Read a f—ing book! (Sorry, violation of ‘no cursing’ rule) But seriously, ignorance is a major turn-off. Book on tape will do.
❤  Have an ambition. You don’t need to be rich but you need to show direction and motivation. Keep a job!
❤  Last one for today: Treat a woman the way you would want your daughter to be treated. Anything less is unacceptable.”

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3 Response to How to Be a Man According to Boris Kodjoe....

August 8, 2011 at 4:01 PM

Yaaay Boris! Thanks for sharing DOLLS as I don't do Twitter. :)

August 8, 2011 at 7:27 PM

LOL no problem Love!

December 13, 2011 at 6:54 PM

i love it!